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Safety Tips

Meeting new people should feel exciting, not risky. Everyone on unidating has confirmed a school email, but that tells you where someone studies, not who they are. Here is how to look out for yourself.

In danger right now? Call 911. Need to talk to someone? Call or text 988. Outside the US, call your local emergency number.

Before you meet

  • Keep chats in the app at first. You can report or block someone in the app at any time.
  • Protect your personal information. Don't share your home address, your dorm room number, your class schedule, or financial details with someone you just met.
  • Choose who sees your handles. Instagram, Snapchat and phone number are shown to matches and friends by default. You can narrow that to matches only or nobody in Settings.
  • Watch for red flags. Be careful with anyone who asks for money, pushes you to move off the app right away, won't video or voice chat, or tries to rush you.
  • Look for the verified badge. It means the person passed the optional ID check.

Meeting up

  • Meet in a public place the first time. A busy spot on or near campus is a good start.
  • Tell a friend where you're going. Share who you're meeting and when you expect to be back. Meeting as a group of two with a friend is another way to stay safe.
  • Get yourself there and back. Arrange your own ride so you can leave whenever you want.
  • Keep a clear head. Never leave your drink unattended.
  • Trust your gut. If something feels off, leave. You don't owe anyone your time.

Consent matters online and in person. Respect boundaries at every step, and expect the same in return. Don't post or share photos of anyone without their permission.

If something goes wrong

  • Report and block in the app. Open the profile or chat, tap the menu, then Report or Block. You can unmatch from the same chat menu. They aren't told when you block them.
  • Safety Center. In the app, open Profile, then Settings, then Safety Center to get help, see your reports and read these tips.
  • Contact us. Use the support form and choose Safety. In an emergency, call local emergency services first.
  • Campus resources. Your school's police department, Title IX office and counseling center can help too.